We share different dynamics with different people and our perspectives about everyone are usually different which may be affected by how we are related to them but have you ever wondered how our mind sometimes suddenly changes how we think about that person or even any situation because of some incidents. Now you may say that's how humans are we keep on changing our opinions based on life experiences and events but my question is how do you come to a sure decision if you can not be sure about your opinion if it may change in the coming future.
for instance, I like some food but now because I had the same dish from a restaurant which makes that dish the worst, and now I hate the dish cause I can't bear the taste anymore even if I eat the good-tasting one the memory of the bad experience hampers it and I decide to never eat it in future. Happened with people right?
Now let's assume, I am fond of a person and I like him/her because of how they treated me and talked to me but now because of some things or some of their words my interest has completely gone in keeping any contact again in simple words I have fallen out of phase with that person and my opinions are completely different about them now and I hate to even think about them.
The same goes for career choices (although not in the situation to comment about my likes and dislikes😳) what if I choose a career option that I love right now and then regret it for the rest of my life what if I fall out of phase with that then I would never be satisfied with what I am doing.
What if I love someone(hypothetically) and commit to them but then fall out of phase because of some incidents let's say an argument then is my whole life going to be affected because of that one decision about commitment?
Some would say you don't get everything you want and you gotta live with your decisions and compromise or change them if you don't like them, but you can change a dish or a friend maybe but what about the other important life decisions? You can't change your career, and You can't change your life partner. Actually, you can but it's not something people do often. Then how do you come to a sure-shot decision that you know you'll never ever regret?
Hopefully, I get answers to these questions on my own with time and maturity although if anyone reads this then do let me know your opinion.
13-04-2024 {04:08pm}
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