To move past an old memory you need a new replacement.
I have heard some things are irreplaceable but I have seen everything is replacable. If you can't move on from some old friendship just make new ones it won't click you just suddenly but with time the old feeling will fade away. You'll forget about that someone whom you used to miss the whole day.
You might not get the same feelings with the new friend you got with the old friend in the past but the feeling will be more mature and calculative and you will feel stronger and more polished as a person cause the loss of that friend helped you build up a new personality. Look at it like it's the after-effect of someone. Things will feel dull initially but eventually, you'll find your glow. You'll learn that the old person had nothing special it was you and your brain that made it special and beautiful and it is you and only you who's going to make many such moments special at different situations and different times.
Clinging to thoughts is tiering. Just rewinding the cassette in your brain and thinking if I would have done this or that or yada yada... then things would have been different is nothing but time waste creating scenarios in your head but not doing anything to execute is also foolish.. do everything you can to make things different but if the efforts don't give you what you wanted just move past them they were never yours and it was not meant for you. What's not yours will never be yours.
Pull yourself together and work on building what you can Not everything is in your hand.
yes, even i had bestie which i talk like almost all the times but now we rn't connected as she is in different clg where she makes new friends and also our time schedules are diff i am not saying it her faults. but i also thinks that in the end we hadn't any friends circle or lot of friends we had just family and if we lucky 1 or 2 friends can be there. as everyone busy with family. we had just great memories we made 🥲
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